Don’t blame love

Don’t blame love if your heart gets broken. Blaming Love is like cursing the ground if you trip and fall.
If you fall in love with someone and they disappoint you, don’t give up. Don’t be afraid to love even more deeply.
Just like falling down, you get up and learn to use caution where you step. Pain is natural. Pain is nature’s way of making us pay attention to what we have done to injure ourselves so that we don’t do it again. Pain of the heart can be deep and if you allow it, all-consuming. The key is not to let that happen. You have to take inventory in yourself. Know that you are worthy and deserving. Separate other people’s actions and opinions from who you know you are as a person. You cannot control what other people do or say, so don’t try. It’s wasted energy. You are in control of yourself. Don’t give that control to someone else by putting yourself down in a failed relationship. Where there is room for improvement, make it, but don’t let your hurt cause you to fear opening your heart. Don’t let a bad situation shut down your capacity to love deeply, for it is that love that will save you and set you free.


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