Month: August 2012

From the ashes..


I have been through a lot of emotional turmoil over the last 6 years. A failed marriage, 2 failed relationships, loss of my mother, my best friend, and my dog. It seems that the only thing I haven’t lost is enough weight and my mind..well the latter is a bit suspect. I’ve never considered myself […]

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Home alone


I’m a systems programmer and I work from home 99% of the time. I go into NY for meetings and certain events about once a month. My job consists of writing code for automation on the mainframe computer and providing technical support for other programmers. For those of you who are unfamiliar with the term […]

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Don’t blame love


Don’t blame love if your heart gets broken. Blaming Love is like cursing the ground if you trip and fall. If you fall in love with someone and they disappoint you, don’t give up. Don’t be afraid to love even more deeply. Just like falling down, you get up and learn to use caution where […]

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Is it just me??


What a week this has been. I don’t even know where to start. Madness This week not only one but two women killed their own children and did something really grotesque. One woman, here in NJ, stabbed her child, cut off his head and put it in the freezer. She called the cops, said her […]

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Untangled webs


lies. We’ve all done it. We’ve all had them thrown at us. What is it that makes a person lie? Sometimes it’s insecurity, sometimes it’s to avoid the consequences of the truth and sometimes it’s a mental issue. I have experienced all of the above in personal and professional relationships. I ask myself what’s worse, […]

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